Vanessa and Alian

How We Met

I have always had this idea of the type of man I wanted to be with, to marry and have children with; so when my previous marriage ended (he was mentally, physically and emotionally abusive) i decided to take matters into my own hands and decided to join eHarmony.com. adter about 2 month and countless of dates later i got a message from Alian. When someone is interested in you they do not send you a message right away you have to go through a few barriers to see if you really are in the same mindset, want the same thing and are interested in the same things. One of the things he said to me was that fanily is one of the most important things to him which was very important to me because family is everything to me as well. After message for about a day lol we exchanged phone numbers and that was the start of an amazing friendship.

How He Asked

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Anyone who knows me knows that Christmas is my ultimate favorite holiday, so on Christmas morning i woke up and went to the restroom (he was still “asleep”) when i got out i heard music playing. But not any music, my all time favorite Michael Bublé’s Christmas album in vynle. I have always wanted a record player so that was one of his presents to me. Once we finish opening all of our gifts we are standing in front of our Christmas tree and he looks at me, he gets down on one knee while Michael Bublé’s Cold December Night (my favorite song) is playing and asks me to spwnd forever with him. I was in so much shock that the first thing out of my mouth was “now or in the future?” Lol he of course said now and i said yes! Of course!

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