Danielle and Bobby
How We Met
We met off Instagram. We were following each other as friends for basically a year and never spoke one word until I messaged Bobby saying how I thought he was the most handsome man I’ve ever seen pictures of and how embarrassed I was to message him that. He responded by laughing and saying how I shouldn’t feel embarrassed and that he found me absolutely gorgeous. We started talking and then met up a day later, then the day after that he took me out on a proper date. It went well enough I guess because we were completely inseparable from the first time we ever met.
How He Asked
Our entire relationship we were always on the same page about marriage, raising a family together one day, owning a house together, etc. well one day in March he told me he didn’t want to get married but still wanted children and the whole thing, just minus the marriage part. I was so devastated but my gut instinct was telling me to wait it out and see what happens because I truly love this man.. Well after many fights and arguments for 5 months long, on a July night his cousin and cousins girlfriend Billy and Devon came to visit us and we spent the whole day together at a water park then went to downtown Wilmington to grab drinks and dinner ..
Bobby was set on showing them the beautiful sunsets down south so we walked to the cape fear boardwalk to watch the sunset. His cousin Billy purposely asked what we thought about marriage and Bobby knew I would go off about it. So he asked, and I said well your cousin Bobby doesn’t want to get married anymore so go ahead and tell your cousin why! Bc you won’t tell me! And Bobby is just laughing and won’t even look at me … All of a sudden he says oh yea well how about this.. And turns and faces me, gets down on one knee, and asks me “will you marry me?”
I was in complete shock and motionless ..
All I could say was “is this a fucking joke?, wait are you being serious?, this is actually happening?!” And his response was “so is that a yes or no because my knee is giving out” so we laughed and I said yes of course!!
It was the most shocking but happiest night of my life. I get to marry the love of my life and I cannot wait to be his wife one day!