Erica and Scott: Banner Ad Marriage Proposal

How We Met: I had been participating in a Fire Island Beach share house for several years. On the recommendation of a fellow housemate, Scott joined in summer of 2008. We were introduced via a mass email chain of housemates discussing what to make that weekend for dinner. Soon the chain broke off to just an email between Scott and I, making jokes and passing the hours until the end of the work week. We decided to meet at Penn Station (each with a close friend) to travel to the beach together. After meeting, getting to the house and cooking in the kitchen together, the chemistry was undeniable.

The group decided to continue the weekend’s festivities with a happy hour back in the city the following Tuesday. As the work week began, everyone cancelled (including me!), but Scott was persistent. He insisted we meet for a drink, even if only across the street from my home. I acquiesced, we had a few drinks, went for dinner and have been inseparable ever since!

How He Asked: Thursday, April 26th began as a really stressful day at my Ad Agency. With multiple accounts having multiple drama filled moments, it was all I could do to take some time for lunch with my team. As I complained about the morning to 2 teammates, little did I know that they were bursting at the seams since they knew what was to come that afternoon.

Around 4:30pm, I was sitting in my office when a co-worker came rushing in to let me know our client had called. He said the client was surfing BBC.com, where we are currently running a campaign, and that the ads were not rendering correctly. Oh great, I thought, more drama! He told me to click on the link that another co-worker then immed to me, and as I watched the page load there were banners with pink flowers all over them. I looked up at my co-worker and said, these aren’t our banners. I looked back down to the screen and in place of the flowers was a message. It said “Erica, will you marry me? You are the love of my life. –Scott” I looked back at my co-worker– we tend to play jokes on each other– but this one did not strike me as funny. Just as I was about to get angry for such a mean joke, in walked Scott, in his tuxedo, with a dozen gorgeous roses and 2 professional violinists!

My co-worker snuck out of my office to make room for Scott, who got down on one knew and asked me to marry him. All of my office mates were standing outside of the wall of my office, beaming, and once I recovered (sort of) from the shock and romance, we all went to the main conference room for some celebratory cocktails.

What followed was a happy hour that I had set up with an industry colleague that was actually all part of the engagement plan too, as my mom, sister and new in-laws were all waiting at the bar to celebrate. Around 10pm, I texted my team to ask if I could work from home the following day, the bubbly was going to my head. A couple of weeks later, a trade publication for our industry, AdAge, posted the story online. We got to relive the moment, along with a minor bout of internet celebrity as the story reached it’s way across the twitter-sphere, and the world!

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Crystall and Ryan: Proposal Video in Rockefeller Center

For almost two New York City winters Ryan and I talked about going ice skating at Rockefeller Center but the holiday season was always so busy. The amount of times we had planned to go but didn’t was so often that it had become a long running joke between us.

However, shortly after the 2011 holiday season my friend Jenn mentioned that despite growing up in NYC she had never gone ice skating at Rockefeller Center and suggested we all go one night. I thought it was a great idea and was excited to learn that she had a friend who could get us free skating passes. I quickly got in touch with Ryan to ask about his schedule and we decided on Friday, January 20th at 8pm. It still amazes me how Ryan and Jenn set it up so that I would be the one asking Ryan to go ice skating! I thought that I had helped arrange the evening, leaving me completely clueless to the truth…it had all been very carefully pre-planned from the beginning!

On January 20th I went about my usual schedule, working for the majority of the day. Despite the tight schedule, I (thankfully!) decided to stop and have my nails done since my salon finally had their first opening in days. I rushed back to the apartment with very little time to get ready and decided that since we were only going ice skating, I’d just be comfortable and replace my contacts for glasses. Knowing very well that my big dorky glasses were the last thing I’d want to be wearing on the night of my proposal, Ryan tried to convince me to wear my contacts instead by saying, “but what if they get knocked off and break on the ice?!”. Of course I thought this was silly and didn’t listen. (Although he did manage to scare me enough that I stuffed an emergency pair of contacts in my bag as we walked out the door!)

We got into a cab with a driver who seemed to be driving in NYC for the first time ever. He was frazzled by the aggressive drivers, almost hit someone, and basically took us on a tour of Manhattan trying to get from Brooklyn to Rockefeller Center! Ryan is typically laid-back in any situation but he seemed strangely uptight about our detour and kept checking the time, I just assumed he was excited about finally ice skating together so I didn’t think too much of it.

Once we got there, we quickly found Jenn, put on our skates and went out onto the ice! Rockefeller Center was more beautiful than ever that night and to me, there was nothing more romantic than being there with Ryan. As the session came to an end, Jenn suggested we stay on the ice for a moment to take pictures in front of the Prometheus statue. We took a few pictures and as people started to exit I realized we were the only ones left on the ice, I kept saying “we should really get off now guys…” but Jenn insisted on taking just one more picture. I looked at Ryan and at that moment our song started to play over the loud speakers, Bob Dylan’s “Emotionally Yours” sung by The O’Jays.

Ryan proceeded to tell me what I can only imagine were the most beautiful and amazing sentiments one could hear from their boyfriend (I, unfortunately, cannot recall any of it due to the level of shock that I was in) then threw off his hat and gloves, lowered himself onto one knee and presented me with this big, gorgeous, sparkly diamond ring!

My favorite part (and one of the reasons that Ryan is so amazing) was after I said yes, when Ryan pointed out that all the people surrounding the top of the rink and cheering were my friends and family! He had arranged for both our families and about 30 of our closest friends to hide behind the upper ledge of the ice skating rink and watch the entire proposal!

He also made sure that one of those friends, who happens to be an amazing photographer, was taking pictures of everything! As I exited the rink I was instantly surrounded by the most important people in my life: my family, my soon-to-be family, and my friends.

After we removed our ice skates and had a brief moment to ourselves, Ryan ushered us all to his next surprise, a restaurant/bar located just across the street. There we ate, drank and celebrated! Still in a state of shock, I recall looking around and being completely overwhelmed by emotion, I was feeling so unbelievably lucky to have such amazing people in my life. I had friends and family who rushed from work or their homes on a Friday evening into midtown to stand around Rockefeller Center ducking behind poles and ledges on one of the coldest days we had all winter so that they could share in one of the happiest moments of my life. But best of all, standing next to me I had my best friend, the man who created this perfect night just for me.

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Susan and Randy

Randy and I officially met on St. Patrick’s Day 2010 – although we’d known of each other prior to that day, through Randy’s cousins and my brother. Everyone always says, “When you know… you know!” It is absolutely true!

We became each other’s best friend and love in a blink of an eye. We realized that we share so much in common; both were raised very similar and value our families more than anything. Our love story seems like it was on turbo mode: we were in love within a month and talking marriage shortly after that; even to each other’s families. We challenge and keep each other grounded at the same time. Whether it’s lying around the house or going out with friends, we are always constantly laughing and having a good time.

To our surprise about 6 months after we started dating, we found out we were expecting! I know, yikes, right? We were both a little nervous about the timing, but knew how much we loved one another and were completely confident we wanted to spend the rest of our lives with one another and have children together. Coming from a fairly strict religious upbringing, the “marriage before the baby is born” conversation, became a much talked about subject. This, of course, made it very tough for Randy: he wanted to make it special for me and in our own time, not because we were going to have a baby or because anyone else thought we should.

So, he stuck to his guns and on April 9th 2011 Randy proposed at our huge co-ed baby shower. He wanted to have our families and friends witness and share in the excitement. It was so special! Right before we opened gifts and were thanking everyone for coming, he turned to me and got down on one knee. While fighting back tears, he choked out “Susan, will you marry me?” My answer was obviously “Of course!” He later said there was so much more he had wanted to say to me at that moment, but I assured him it couldn’t have been more perfect!

On May 11th, 2011, we lovingly brought our son, Noah Ray, into the world. Never in our lives have we had so much uncontrollable love for someone. Becoming parents together it has made our relationship ten times stronger. I do not know the person I would be without Randy. Watching him with Noah fills me with so much joy. He is a wonderful father, and I fall more and more in love with him each and every day. Having the baby put our wedding planning on hold for a bit, but now have officially set a date for October 27th of this year! I know this is the man God sent for me, and we cannot wait to get married! Randy and I also won an awesome wedding photography package last summer with the wonderful, Alyssa Marie Photography! She is so talented and we couldn’t be more thrilled or in love with these engagement photos!

Photos by Alyssa Marie Photography

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Eric and Jill: His Side of the Story + a Video of the Proposal

HOW WE MET: My parents taught me to respect my teachers from a young age, and I’m sure glad they did. Long before I knew Jill, her father was my P.E. teacher in 6th and 7th grade. Jill and I met at the end of October in 2006, during our senior year of high school. We went to neighboring high schools, and found we had a lot of mutual friends. She had me from the start, and I wanted to spend as much time as I could with her. We started a long-distance stretch of our relationship our freshman year of college, as she went to school in San Luis Obispo, CA, and I went to Cal State Fullerton in Orange County. We saw each other every couple of weeks, and decided to move back home to the bay area after the year was over. After a year at home, I went back down to Fullerton, and she followed the next semester to go to school at Vanguard University in Costa Mesa. We have been able to enjoy the last two-and-a-half years of our relationship close to each other, and both graduated this spring.

HOW HE ASKED: The last few weeks of college were stressful for Jill, and she was focusing all of her energy on finishing school. With that in mind, I knew she would not be expecting me to propose. I had planned to propose the week before she graduated, but the ring took longer to build than the jeweler expected, so I had to postpone for one week. Even though I was frustrated at the time, the delay was a gift from God. It ended up raining that whole day – not exactly beach proposal weather.

The next week I finally received the ring, and collaborated with a few close friends to help capture the moment. The Huntington Beach pier is a special place for Jill and me, and it is one of the most photogenic places I have photographed. With that in mind, we headed down to the pier on Monday to plan out the proposal. We figured the best way to capture the video was to bury my GoPro Hero2 video camera in the sand, and brush the sand off the lens. Evan would shoot from behind us, and allow the pillars of the pier to frame us. Ben would shoot from the south side of the pier, and would capture our silhouettes in front of the ocean. There was a heavy marine layer on Monday, and I was praying I could get a sunset on Thursday.

Thursday came and Jill took the last final of her life, so I suggested we celebrate with some sushi and saki bombs from our favorite spot in HB. We enjoyed good food and conversation, reflecting on the past and looking forward to the future. After dinner I asked if we could walk along the beach, and watch the sunset under the pier. It was windy that evening, but God had blessed us with a beautiful sunset, so we grabbed a jacket from the car and headed down to the beach.

I had given my buddies a heads-up text when we left the restaurant, and everything went exactly to plan. We talked about school being done as we walked down the beach, and when we got to the end she had no idea what I was about to do. I’ve never seen that much raw, beautiful emotion before, and after I got down on my knee, time seemed to stand still for a moment. Even now it hasn’t completely sank in that I am going to spend the rest of my life with my best friend! The footage turned out great, and my buddies captured some shots we will cherish for the rest of our lives. The next day her entire family came down south for her graduation, and it was awesome being able to spend the weekend surrounded by family.

Here it is on video:

And here is Jill’s new ring…

Photos by Evan Staeck and Benjamin Morse!

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Estee and Roberto in Puerto Rico

How We Met: Our story started December 5th, 2009 at an event called The Don Quijote Awards. The award show serves to honor hispanic business owners of Central Florida and Roberto’s brother and sister-in-law were huge winners of the evening. Ironically, I knew his sister-in-law!! I walked over to extend a congratulations and say hello. This was the best thing I did all night seeing as how she then introduced me to Roberto. I instantly melted when I saw his beautiful, bright smile! Why I was so nervous, I have no clue; it’s so unlike me! But I regained my composure and we spoke for a few minutes. The conversation ended with us exchanging contact information and returning to our tables. Now it was time for the waiting game. Would he call? Would he email?

The following day he emailed me. I couldn’t have been more excited! I was in a meeting when he called and I promise you, as soon as my cell phone rang, I immediately bolted! We spoke for a while before setting up our first date; we agreed on a delicious sushi restaurant in downtown Orlando. Our date was December 10th, 2009 and we’ve been inseparable ever since.

How He Asked: April 26th, 2012, just days after my birthday, Roberto decided to take me to his hometown, Rincon, Puerto Rico. It’s a little town with so much charm! Plus, it is home to many of the best surfing beaches in Puerto Rico which totally sells itself! What’s sensational about this trip is that he brought his parents along. By the way, we get along very well, so it was wonderful to spend this time with them and learn so much about the history this little town of Rincon holds. As I was enjoying the tourist attractions, beaches and food he was busy planning the next phase of his master plan – the arrival of my family.

The next evening, Friday, my parents, sister and her boyfriend surprised me. I was in shock as I cried and hugged them. Roberto still stuck to his story that the trip AND surprise were both for my birthday. Of course I believed him! As the third day approached, we planned for a trip into the city and dinner at night. On our way back from the city, he insisted on stopping by a lighthouse located in the heart of Rincon. I was kind of against the idea since we all had to get ready for dinner, but eventually gave in. Poor thing, he must have been thinking, “Gosh! She’s making this whole proposal thing really difficult.” We arrived at the lighthouse for the highlight of the trip – my proposal.

Upon our arrival, my family members and his were taking photos and enjoying the scenery. I was by their side until Roberto asked me to join him on this little trail that led to the beach. I love walks and hikes through nature so he knew it’d work. I proceeded to join him on the trail all the while truly thinking we were just taking it all in. As we approached the soft, white sand we gazed at the sunset. This is when he took my hand in his and got on one knee. In a flash, the whole trip and its purpose dawned on me, “Oh my gosh, he’s going to ask me to marry him!” That’s precisely what happened next.

Of course I said YES and today we are happily engaged planning a fabulous wedding. He’s wonderful. I couldn’t have asked for a better blessing.

Estee Martin is one of Central Florida’s most popular and dynamic radio personalities, with her unique style and unmistakable sultry voice! Congrats to a beautiful and talented woman!

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